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How to Seduce a Woman by Making Her Laugh
Wondering how to seduce a woman by making her laugh? If you’ve spent any time testing out the art of seduction and flirting, you know that the straightest path between a woman and her bedroom is laughter. Men are pretty much the same way . . . if you can make a person laugh, you’re breaking through their tough exterior and eliciting a physical reaction to your presence. Doesn’t take a PhD in psychology to know that making a person laugh increases the likelihood that they will like you. Here’s a list of ways to make a woman laugh . . . all the way to the bedroom.
- The easy laugh. The best way to make a woman laugh is to turn an awkward or difficult situation into a lighthearted giggle. Once, I was scouting for a woman at a bar, and was able to make eye contact with a pretty young thing. Now if only I could build up the courage to stand up and go talk to her . . . but before I could think anything else, I’d accidentally tripped a waiter holding a huge tray of drinks. Glass and wine was everywhere, and the whole bar (including my pretty young thing) had their eyes on me. With a simple shrug and a gentle mutter of “Oops” I had her in the palm of my hand. I showed my silly side AND my vulnerable side all at once. I had a good time that night. Remember that not all laughs are complicated or intentional. The quickest way to a woman’s heart is a little self deprecation and a little silliness.
- When you read polls in magazines about “what women are attracted to”, you’ll find “sense of humor” near or at the top every time. Go ahead and embrace this. If you can’t work out an ‘easy laugh’ as described above, you’re going to have to go for a joke. Researchers tell us that women and men think about humor differently. When a joke bombs, a man’s mind is “turned off” while a woman stays neutral. However, if the joke surprises her (or is, believe it or not, actually funny) she is almost instantly won over to your side. Use this to your advantage . . . keep a stock of short (and FUNNY) jokes in mind instead of cheesy pickup lines. Deliver your joke with confidence, and it doesn’t hurt to make eye contact as you tell it.
- Avoid seriousness. That’s right — don’t take everything so seriously. Women interpret a light hearted attitude to mean that you’ll be fun and open minded in bed. It is very sexually stimulating for women to be around guys who are willing to laugh and willing to poke fun at themselves and others. Outside of letting an easy laugh happen, or throwing a joke directly at a woman, having a light hearted or “silly” attitude is the best way to get in the good graces of a woman. Yes, this does mean wearing a smile more often than not.
- Opportunities for humor are opportunities to show interest in a woman’s life. Women love when men pay attention to what they’re saying . . . that’s a proven fact. Making a joke about your tough day at work, or imitating the snotty waiter that just delivered your drink, will no doubt lead the woman you’re after to start telling personal stories. If this happens, you’ve hooked the woman. She’s telling you personal details, and if you can convince the woman that you actually care about what she is saying, she’s yours.
Humor isn’t always preparing a stand-up routine or throwing out cheesy puns over dinner. You have to willing to let humor happen naturally, wear a smile on your face, and turn jokes or gags into opportunities for real connection. Once you’ve made a woman laugh, the rest of the evening is just one big detail. Get her laughing, and you’ll get her in bed.
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